My parents are only children and neither liked that so they were keen to have more than 1 – ended up with 4 of us…. Whilst an only child will have access to other kids there will be times when they are on there own so either get lonely or need input from a parent – or get stuck in front of the TV?! Money is an issue for most of us so might be considered wrong to have too many if it’ll be a struggle.
Those that don’t want any are they selfish? Well, depends on how you look at it, in a sense they are in that they want don’t want to look after kids and spoil(?) their own lives but if you’re not the right sort of person to have kids then would be wrong to have them. I am unsure about compromising my life (less cycling?!) but having kids would add other elements and I’m pretty keen overall. I think I’m too worried about not being a good Dad and struggling to deal with the way kids so often seem to be these days. I don’t like the idea of both parents working but it seems to be hard to finance a family these days without two incomes. We’ll see.