Do organizations, such as Relate, help much? Do they ever suggest that breaking up is the best option?! I’ve been marrried for 3 years now and going OK at the moment despite a few bad patches when one of us might have suggested we’d made a mistake.
We got some important things out of the way early on;
Will you still ride bikes when we’re married?
Yup.
Would you stop riding if I made you choose?
Nope.
Interestingly she’s now showing interest in mtbing and hassles me to take her out which is good though not so good if I’ve just got back from a big ride.