We married when the constant bonking where ever we could had the obvious results,that was 28 years ago,and 3 children later.
We have been thru the mill with life,a bushiness going bust ,house repossession,got fired from a good job(false accusations of fraud,later they coughed right royally),parents on my side lost the plot,Dad then passed away n mom tried living with us 2 years,but that didn’t work.
But we came thru it all,come close to separation at times,certainly fared better than wife’s two sisters ,who have both had two failed marriages kids by different farther’s,n neither settled still.
But we now are mortgage free, own our own house in a rural part of Ireland ,i work 3 days wk on average,ride when i want ,we walk together as my wife is not big cycling fan.
And the Sex life is great .
SO it CAN WORK>
It’s all down to working at it.