lgb – Do you think that any of the mlehworld ladies feel belittled or threatened, despite the general tone of that forum? Or that any have left because of it?
Do you feel more welcome over here or over there?
Sorry druidh, for the late reply, I had to go off and do some of that awful thing called work!
Mlehworld is a very special place, full of some reet special people ;) It never claims to be anything to anyone, least of all welcoming! The wonderful mlehburds give as good as they get, and know the score. There are no ‘forum rules’ (well not that I know of, other than the unwritten ones) which dictate how you can respond and how you should treat others.
Giving as good as you get on here is very different – I’d be banned within 5.25 seconds if I responded to some people how I would really like :lol:
So I just don’t bother most of the time!
I feel welcomed by some, and hated by others, on both forums. I’m a pretty marmite kind of girl so that’s nothing unusual and it doesn’t bother me. I guess I know a bigger percentage of people in real life on mlehworld, so feel more welcomed there through that alone. I ride always with guys and work in a very male dominated environment. I regularly get comments like ‘oh, I was expecting a guy’ – whether it’s when I take of the fullface or when I turn up on site.
I am not readily offended.
BUT that doesn’t mean I don’t understand that others are offended. I didn’t start this thread as a complaint. I was genuinely interested in the overall opinion of whether the loss of the two members was down to STW not being welcome enough, or whether they were maybe over-sensitive to the issue. If it was the former, like I have already said, it would’ve been maybe worth trying to sort it out. Seems general opinion is that it was the latter.
I do think it is a real shame that two female members have gone, as they both had such useful input. But you know, I’ll go rag my bike this weekend and this thread will disappear of the face of the planet by tomorrow and no-one will really care. Other than those who have been genuinely hurt by comments that may, or may not, have been directed at them.