Inappropriate dishwasher stacking.
Putting dirty dishes etc next to the sink for the washing up fairy.
If the dishes do go in the sink they go in with what food scraps remained.
Starting a job just as we are about to leave for somewhere.
finding plenty of spare time to look at holidays/facebook etc but never time to look at alternative insurance quotes for her car etc.
Tidying involves putting things in piles and leaving it there.
Cooking involves every dish/pot/pan/knife/fork/spoon etc
Making arrangements then asking me if it is okay.
If i was of a suspicious nature I may conclude she does the above knowing it irritates me so I do it instead.