As a barber myself, its often diffcult to know when someone wants to chat or not. Social interaction doesnt really allow us to ask straight out if people want to chat or not…at least not without it feeling really awkward.
Some folks come in for a chat more than a haircut because they are on their own at home or whatever. Some folks come in that we are really glad to see and chat with.
You are kind of taught to chat and make the whole thing an “experience” but the longer you’re in the business the more you realise that some folks prefer to just sit in silence.
Additionally theres some clientelle that i’d be more than happy to never hold another conversation with again, just as long as they keep giving me their custom.