You will be seen as a bad influence
even though i have never been a big drinker and am by no means badly behaved I have had a couple of mates other halves not like me for no reason i could see
Put it down to when i wanted to catch up with my mates it was usually for a few drinks. The fact that they were always a lot more badly behaved than me (like a dog off the lead) was obviously my fault. Nothing to do with them feeling trapped or controlled or anything….
Anyway, the girls have won so i guess they are happy 🙂
edit – in fact i bumped into one mate at a kids party not long ago after not seeing him for about 5 years. His wife proceeded to introduce me to their daughter as ‘the bad influence on daddy’. ‘kin charming. I did nothing apart from wanting to catch up with my mate that i have known since school