can't be arsed to read all that ^ but I have a dispute about one of Mr Woppit's comments (not for the first time when discussing music, IIRC):
… also presenting it in a musical way with proper pitch, pace, rhythm and timing.
Sorry MrW but, speaking as a musician (ok then, a drummer*), unless the musicians can do that, no amount of money spent on "reference hifi" can sort that out.
*no, enough of the drummer jokes. I'm serious.
Most human drummers will vary slightly through any individual piece. Your "average" music fan won't notice unless it's seriously bad. Some drummers can keep perfect time – the late Robert Heaton is an example that springs readily to mind.
Being too perfect sometimes takes the soul out of a piece – you may as well have a well programmed drum machine or sequencer instead
If a drummer is bad enough at keeping metronomic time that it's noticeable to Jo(e) Public, then he/she will probably work to a click track when recording, in order to eliminate this issue as much as possible. But a hifi system, no matter how good, or bad (unless the wow/flutter are perfectly synchronised to the drummer) can correct this.