A few observations as a parent of 2
Ignore any and every post that begins ‘I am not a parent’
Ignore the STW hardmen saying they would ‘knock him out’ that’s insane and typical of this place
Kids need calm and consistency and love, nothing else. I grew up in a house that was full of shouting, threats of suicide from my mum. Multiple hidings and even being told off for making a mess after my brother stabbbed me.
All of my sisters went on to be in relationships with men who abused them. And my brother ended up in psychiatric care.
The cause of this was that there was never any peace, quiet, calm, quiet conversations or love. Rules changed every day without notice. And stuff that would be let go one day would catch you a hiding the next.
As a parent , the amount you influence what sort of person your children turn into can never be underestimated.
Be the type of parent you needed as a kid