Thanks luke & freeagent, my wife’s been discharged from the hospital (about 5 weeks ago) and so is driving to the hospital in the morning (it’s only 20 mins and she works there anyway) and spending all day there, I’m then going in to see them both in the evening before we both drive home for dinner. I’m making sure she’s got lunch, and sorting dinner, I’m also trying to stay on top of the housework and looking after the dog so she can concentrate on Arthur while she’s in hospital as she’s trying to establish breast feeding.
I know there’s not much I can do, but I’m still finding the sitting at home trying to work, while she’s in hospital and not being able to ask questions directly to the Dr’s etc harder than I’d ever of imagined.