At my club, I’m a Ride Lead and Club Captain, so I’m one of those knobbers who ‘insists on strict adherence to club rules’, which are policies derived from the safety risk assessment, insurance requirements or just to promote the unity of the whole group. If you don’t agree with these, or me or others calling them out, just don’t join. Win win.
But these rules don’t mean it’s not an inclusive and supportive club, nor that me calling these out for safety considerations means I am deflecting from inclusiveness or supportiveness.