We were given a copy of “What to expect in the first year”. We didn’t bother with it until 2 weeks or so after ours came along. If we had read the first 2 chapters before that we may have avoided 2 calls to NHS24 and a trip to hospital! It’s set out really well with questions and answers rather than preaching, it’s heavy on breast feeding tho’. Just use it to take what you need rather than as a set of rules.
All kids are different, listen to all advice but do what is best for you and your baby.
As others have said, take help when it is offered. Don’t be afraid to sleep in the middle of the day when you get a chance.
The first 6 weeks will probably be a blur, but remember that it will get easier/better!
And most of all being a dad is ace!!!