Trust me two weeks in = no routine. Do what needs to be done. They are too young for controlled crying ( and I’m a advocate ). Like said up top take them for a spin in the pram or car ( weather dependant )
Don’t ever let ANYONE make you feel bad for not breast feeding. There’s nothing wrong with using formula. Statistics can be changed to fit any argument.
Things will calm down but not for a while. Just hang in there and rest when you can.
Ps don’t listen to the people who love to say things like ” oh my baby slept all night from birth” or such like.
Good luck and keep us updated.