Got lucky, with a good design, good location and 18 months of backbreaking, brain breaking work 6 years ago!
I will build another house (house we really want to live in) in a few years, when both kids are fully ensconced in school and I can handle the stress of doing it again
In the meantime it seems crazy not to try and take advantage of our equity to improve our finances/freedom in the future.
Just not sure how best to go about this