Got them tonight and asked my 6 yr old girl if she was happy, she replied yes, so i asked her what makes her sad, she said sometimes her brothers annoy her, so what makes you laugh i say, "you do daddy", bless i thought, surely your mum does too….." no never!"
I asked her brothers the same and they both agreed saying all she does is either, work, facebook, talk or txt on the phone and shout at them….
Substitute work and facebook for watch telly and play video games and I know how you feel. My boys (7 and 3) both prefer it here – they come every weekend, the eldest Fri-Sun and the youngest Sundays and some Saturday nights. We (missus and 2yr old daughter) had them from NYE to Sunday and their mum didn't get in touch once to see how they were (it was the longest the youngest had spent away from her) or to wish them Happy NEw Year which, sadly, typifies a lot of things at her end.
My missus and their mum get along okay – they've taken the youngest two to soft play together a couple of times so it's not as if it's an embittered and hateful split. I just can't stand how little proper attention and love they get from her and would dearly love for the boys to be here with us, getting all the interest and love they deserve. So I know how you feel sharki, it's like your guts are being pulled out whenever you think of them when they're not there.
My best response – that I can come up with – is to make sure that they get all the love, happiness and stimulation that you can give, and by the sounds of the posts above, you already do that.