Surely there’s the bigger picture to see here…that of biological need. Without kids we’d be gone in 70 years. Overall, having kids is essential. OK, like the animals, a number of us won’t for some reason or another.
Personally, I thought life was important before kids. How wrong I was! They ramp things up a few notches and turn you into a better person. You have to learn a new skillset almost immediately. Absolutely nothing feels as good as a little persons love for you.
I love the idea of having more, I’d have 5 or 6, but I don’t have the energy for the early months of waking up in the night, and Mrs is absolutely against any more.