flashinthepan » I made no mention of being offended by it.
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And yes, a little bit ‘entitled’ by the guy.
Well now I’m properly confused – you’re not at all bothered by it, but you think it was entitled. Can I just check – what other things do people do which you’re not at all bothered by which you think makes them entitled? Just want to make sure I don’t do anything which offends bothers you think is entitled.
Not unreasonable for him to understand that some people present may have been offended
Ah, so it’s offence by proxy? That explains everything.
You seem ‘hard of thinking’ so I’ll try my best to explain.
Yes there are other things which are not ‘inherently offensive’ but that can cause offence or irritation in the wrong context. For example I enjoy music of many types and am absolutely not offended by it. However somebody playing music loudly from their car stereo in a car park is offensive as it is them ‘inflicting’ their ‘wants’ on the many whether they want it or not. It’s selfish, inconsiderate, impolite and well, behaving like a dick.
Offence by proxy? Well, as I’ve said I’m not offended by the nudity. However there may well have been others there who were or would have been if they’d seen it. I’d call that, at best, impolite from the guy as his actions had the potential to make somebody else uncomfortable in a public space. A potential that he should have reasonably been able to recognize. So although I’m not offended by his nudity, his thoughtless actions do irritate me