@jonesboy
I do not frequent here that often, but have just read this whole tread with great interest, emotions started from don’t worry through to what a shitty situation.
You need to be really proud how you have handled the whole situation, some really tough decisions and looks like you are slowly slowly getting there.
Regardless of others comments, drug and even excessive alcohol use isn’t to be taken lightly. I have seen everything from heroin deaths in the family, good school friend now with mental health issues through to the stoner at uni now earning 500k as a company CEO. It effects every person in a different ways. Your son definitely seems like he is at the start of a downhill cycle, you are doing very well to be actively tacking this – keep it up and keep encouraging him to make the good decisions and more importantly seeing the positive life outcomes of these.
BTW I have 2 young sons and this tread is one of my worst nightmares, I think I will try and stay in Singapore til they are 18! The death sentence here is a deterrent.