you don’t have kids…..
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mis read that as her wanting babies, him not. Either way, if you are miserble then maybe give it one last shot and try and seriously work out the problems or walk away. Don’t be pinning your hopes on someone you think may make you happy just because they are new and shiney and different. Grass isn’t always greener.
Anyway, I’ve probably got the wrong end of the stick cos I’ve not read through the rest of the thread but hope you are ok and it works out whichever way you go.