An integrated seatpost weights more than a non integrated one in steel.
I prefer Baum’s solution of painting the seatpost.
The seatstays, 14mm is thin enough, I might consider 12mm. but those look to be 8mm.
No tubing manuf. has anything below 14mm in catalogue, and even then, Columbus’ high end tubing (spirit; life) has 16mm min.
Still, it all depends on who you’re building for.
Bit like the twin tube bike we did years ago, on smaller sizes it was great, something medium-big and it didn’t work.
that’s the great thing about custom bikes, they’re custom.