I became a dad for the first time in May. The two best bits of advice that were given to me were don’t bother reading too much as the advice is so conflicting and all babies are different. The other, really important bit, was make sure that you and your partner are nice to each other. It can be pretty stressful when you’re sleep deprived and don’t really know what to do but it really helps if you can maintain calm and provide the occasional treat.
If your partner is breast feeding then for the first few months you’re likely to be a glorified helper for her every need. It gets more fun though as they start to get more interactive.
Second hand is great if you’re on a budget. There is so much baby stuff available either cheap or free it’s madness to buy much new. We got about £600 worth of burly, off road buggy for £100 and that’s us sorted for years. Bundles of clothes can be had for not much money as well. Facebook marketplace and eBay are good.