When I ride with my local road club, I am the only woman, in a group of 30-40 guys. They’re all great, but it’s pretty intimidating to begin with, and even though I’m now comfortable with holding my own in the group, sometimes I feel self-conscious and that I stick out like a sore thumb.
To be honest, blokes can be quite hard on blokes too. How many newbies have been welcomed with the STW humour, it’s just blokes being socially clumsy. A few spoil it, but in general it’s just banter. That’s not an excuse, I think, on the whole it’s true. Think apprentices and ‘long stands’ or ‘left handed screwdrivers’. Doesn’t make it right, it just highlights that both blokes and birds can equally feel intimidated.
So every month I organise a ‘women’s ride’ for the club, and because they didn’t feel like they’d be the only one, quite a few women come along. To be honest, it’s great to have other girls to ride with occassionally, we talk about stuff that wouldn’t be relevant to guys, and it gives us a more level playing field to compare our relative abilities. Plus it acts as an ‘icebreaker’ for the main club.
Which is perfect.
so hopefully in the future they’ll be an equal proportion of girls taking part and there’ll be no need for women only cycling events.
Why not?
Blokes ride with blokes.
Birds ride with birds.
Blokes ride with birds.
Blokes ride alone.
Birds ride alone.
It’s all good.