Well said Ti29er, ade ward & bike whisperer.
Having slept on the issue, I'd just like to conclude by saying that on a long slow climb & with all other things being equal my 8.5st girlfriend is going to have to expend approx 8% more energy to get to the top hill if she used a 30lb bike instead of a 20lb bike.
And yes before you start flaming me for ignoring wind resistance rolling resitance etc, in reality it's the hills that most people find the hardest and at 5mph struggling uphill those factors are going to be fairly minimal on their effect on the percentage of effort required.
Maybe weight is not the be all & end all, but to ignore it & pretend it doesn't matter makes no sense to me