Be careful not to become a self fulfilling prophecy. I’m not the easiest person to get along with either, but a little introspection and a moderation of your ways are sometimes needed in life, as samurai more or less said.
Like any pastime or hobby cycling’s important but it’s ancillary to having a decent, meaningful relationship with somebody who cares – for me anyway. Unless of course you really do prefer your own company (and that’s fine), but given that you have gone to the trouble of posting here I suspect this not to be the case.
I was 35 before I met my wife. Looking back, all the relationships I’d had up until that point amounted to nothing other than vacuous polyfilla.
I know it might be easier said than done, just get out there and mix it up. Remember, although it’s a vomitous phrase ‘every pot has a lid’ 😀