What like yours? I just posted my thoughts, I can’t see how I have blamed you or instructed you in how to live your life in any way.
My experience as a mother is that everybody has an opinion that they like to foist upon you on what you are doing wrong, when in fact I have been happy with my choices from the beginning and my kids are well. Hence my point about not feeling the need to conform, because almost everybody told me to leave the kids to cry, do the hoovering while they wail and generally go agaisnt my own instinct. I did not conform and so far nobody is dead. I’m not suggesting you do the same, I’m suggesting you have the strength to choose whatever you want to do, it seems as though you have, so good news.