The issue is now, should I get probate involved to sort out who gets the cash because there is not enough for all claims. If I do get probate involved, dose this cost come out of the estate first before it all goes to creditors?
Same condolences to all of you, lost my mother in November and Dad year before
craig, as I understand it you can pay funeral expense from the estate prior to probate and add them to the deductions on the online probate form. This will also ask you for other creditors but my understanding is the funeral expenses are sunk costs (IANAL).