Got dumped by my then girlfriend on my 30th birthday. To be fair to her, she had said she’d make it a birthday I’d never forget.
I dumped my first girlfriend after I’d decided things weren’t working out and I wanted to get out. Went to her house, explained the situation, and said quite clearly “Things aren’t working, and I want us to break up” queue loads of tears, “This is the worst day of my life, I have nothing left to live for” type stuff was said (by her) and I did the manly thing and legged it.
A couple of weeks later, no contact between us, and she appears outside mine and says “I don’t think things are really working for us, we never seem to see each other any more” It felt really cruel to have to explain for a 2nd time…. 😕