Oak worktops here. Not a mark on them despite us being untidy kitchen slobs.
Water, red wine, curry. Not a problem.
You’re probably right, the kitchen I was referring to was one we had a a rental house we had to stay in for a little bit – was probably cheap. It did burn also when you put a hot pan on it, not sure if thise would happen on more quality wood? My wifes a chef so our kitchens get a pretty industrial workout.
We have a Leicht kitchen now with Granite which I would wholeheartedly recommend.