I’ve given up trying to stay waterproof these days
I have come to the same conclusion. With waterproof garments I end up just as wet from sweat as I would have been without, so I use insulating layers with a windproof on top.
L/S base layer, close fitting micro fleece and then the windproof in my bag if its needed. Can vary the thickness of the baselayer depending on how cold it is.
Merino socks and AM45 shoes on my feet. Gets a bit damp but stays warm. More than can be said for goretex boots.
Also have some dhb Roubaix bib tights for when its mega cold.
Just got some race face ambush shorts for a bit of extra weather protection.