I’m a head of Maths (I’m off today as I’m booked into hospital tomorrow and have had some nasty prep medications to take today).
It gets easier after 4-5 years, I’m in my 7th year now…but the one thing that is so draining compared with other jobs is the lack of downtime.
I get in at 7:30am and by 8:05am it’s started.. you then literally rarely get a second to breath until 3:15pm. I often have my lunch then and then start again working until about 6pm
It’s not so long hours in that sense for me, but barely getting a minute to take a break during the day is really tiring mentally and physically.
That said, I’d not change it. Pays well when you’ve been going a while and have extra responsibility, plus 13 weeks off is nothing to sniff at (yes we work in the holidays, but you can still have a lot more time away than 99% of other folk).
And the best bit for me is the upside of the intensity.. you are never watching the clock… Quite the opposite, you are constantly looking at it thinking “crap I’ve got 5 minutes to get this done before whatever else starts”. The day flies by every day!.
Its not all doom and gloom, and for me the second year of being qualified was by far the hardest. You get used to it and also more efficient the longer you do the job.
Being in different schools can be very different, I’d advise any teacher having a tough time to experience different management teams above them as they all have very different approaches.