I worked in the city (not big money sales/trader, more modest back office manager) but soon tired of it and we moved to the Midlands and I retrained as a cabinet maker soon after getting married.
We got a lot of the expensive things done while earning more (travel, engagement ring, wedding, honeymoon, but not property ladder unfortunately).
Our lifestyle is modest but comfortable. Making things is much better for self esteem than endless cash reconciliations!
Sometimes I feel like a ‘black sheep’ among my higher earning friends, but I think they respect my decision. More importantly, we have kids now and I’m home by five each evening! I’m thinner, fitter, happier and poorer.