Some interesting attitudes.
On a train in Kazakhstan a few months back I was trying to explain that in the UK wider families (non-immediate) do not often share their wealth. The local woman I was talking to was absolutely baffled by this. Seems that families in this part of the world always spread their money around – i.e. if you have a rich uncle he will support your parents, you and your siblings.
Conversely I have an uncle in the Rich List and you’d be lucky to get a tin of beans out of him if you fell on your arse.
Seems from some of the comments that there is a lack of trust. Why doesn’t a scheme exist online or elsewhere (correct me if one does) whereby rich/willing & also struggling families register and ‘marry up’ i.e. help each other out directly? If I had a few quid I would happily sponsor a struggling family on the basis of regular visits.