I have been riding the shared use sea wall path from Keyhaven to Lymington for 35 years and after a fair number of incidents with walkers realised something that I wished I had known for all my life.
What I realised was that 1/3 of people are shits. It is as simple as that. 2/3 will smile, say hellow, even keep a gate open for you. But 1/3 will rather have a go at you even though they are out walking through beautiful salt marsh countryside, birds all around and the Solent with sail boats everywhere.
If someone had a go at me, I used to brood on it, and try to thing of a response I should have given. But now I simply laugh to myself, and say, yes 1/3 of people really are shits.
Just the other day a woman, they are mostly women, had a go at me about riding on the sea wall. She claimed she had read the sign which said it was not a cycling path. I explained she did not read the rest of the sign which explained that it was a permissive path and cycling is allowed but they must take care.
She just refused to accept this. I asked what was the matter with her, why did she have to attack a cyclist. Her husband joined in to say they were cyclists. I could not believe this, flabbergasted. She still having a go at me, I turned to him and expressed my regret that he was married to such a miserable cow, and that I felt sorry for him.
Just a few yards further was another sign saying cyclists please take care. Proving just a few yards on that I was correct.
I wish I had know all my life that 1/3 are shits. My life would have been so much easier, and I would have found dealing with people I just could not understand so much easier.