I’ve had a cat for 9 months so I am now obviously an expert (!)
– Your cat will pick the wet food it likes, give it that brand / flavour but not too much. It will ask for food because it wants food, not because its hungry. Give it more dry food than it wants as it won’t like it as much as wet, but it needs it more. If it doesn’t eat its dry food, don’t give it any wet food.
– Find the cheapest insurance with the least coverage. It will satisfy your other half that you care about the cat, but when moggy gets splattered or a face tumour, sorry darling, it will have to go to cat hell (no cats get to heaven, am I right?).