The moving a couple of hours away from your family is a bigee. The support of parents,and friends when you’re bringing kids up is absolutely invaluable. Especially for your other half, who might end up feeling really isolated without them, and you at work all day.
This + 1000
With our first child we lived about 40 mins from my wife’s family and I was very close to work. It was a rural area we lived in and my wife really found it isolating and difficult.
Due to this we decided to move closer to family support. We ended up moving when my wife was around 4 months pregnant with our second, this was the single most stressful time in my life, by a distance. However, it was worth it, especially when our second was born. Even just knowing that family were 5 mins away made a huge difference to my wife and meant that we could enjoy life so much more.
Now they are a little older it’s good to be able to pop out, even just for half and hour, and have someone close by to mind the children.
My work is further away but it has been totally worth it for the extra support.