Definitely brought about by the knock on effects of another problem, Social Anxiety. Hoping CBT will sort this out cos I feel I’ve missed out on so much in life already (socializing, friendships, relationships). Actually feeling quite ‘up’ just now having made a start at sorting things out :-)
Went to my GP this morning….no tears or anything like that, just laid out my feelings….he’s prescribed me Fluoxetine and referred me for CBT.
I was at the docs on monday, got quite upset and couldn’t speak for the first 5 mins :oops:
Been put on Citalopram which I’m not sure about, the common side affects are a worry, and also referred for CBT. If the appointment is a long wait I might go private. There’s a counselor nearby who also lectures in CBT at local uni.
Well done her!
My Mum’s a bit like that too. If it’s a nice day she’ll start in the garden after breakfast and only come in when it gets too dark. She’s 69.
I reach my boredom threshold after 1/2 hour :roll:
Noel (on Liam): “He’s rude, arrogant, intimidating and lazy. He’s the angriest man you’ll ever meet. He’s like a man with a fork in a world of soup.” :-)
Thanks Guys its helped to know your stories good and bad and i hope it has helped others realise that thee is treatment that works and there is no shame in asking for help.
Indeed.
And first step taken … just made an appointment with my GP.
xcgb – Thanks for the link, I’ll have a read this evening.
I reckon the way forward is to get the self esteem/confidence thing sorted (looks like counseling/CBT is common treatment) then improvements in socialising/friendships/relationships, avoided atm, would lift the depression.
Mild depression and low self esteem/lack of confidence here. Originally diagnosed back in ’97 and put on SSRIs which I didn’t give long enough before deciding they weren’t working and quit without consulting the doc :roll:
Then about 10 years ago my GP referred me for counseling for social anxiety disorder. There was about a 6 month wait for an appointment which given the condition was plenty time for my imagination to run riot and I cancelled with about 2 weeks to go :roll:
Almost reached the point where I’ve got enough courage to go back to the doc again cos I can’t carry on like this tbh.
There’s a coast to coast from Bonar Bridge to Ullapool. You could overnight there and do the return the following day? I’ve not done it but think there was an organised ride on here once upon a time. Not too far for you to travel to the start either.
I did C25K 2 years ago and though I got through the programme and could run 5k I had to stop cos of knee pain. I’ve been running again for the last 6-7 weeks, just doing what felt right rather than C25K and managed 5k on monday night :-)
Now if I could just stop stuffing my face 24/7 I might lose some weight …
From 2000-2008 I went touring europe for 3 weeks each summer alone on my motorbike. When riding it was fine but evenings could be a bit quiet, I don’t speak any languages.