What about getting a Jap import? Something like a Toyota Previa/Estima, Nissan El Grand etc. A friend is importing one himself (saving a lot over buying one pre-imported apparently). You get all sorts of toys you don’t get on Euro cars (remote control doors for example) you can get them in 4wd and hybrid too.
Personally I’d much rather get an MPV type thing rather than an estate, you may lose a bit on drive-ability but you get a lot more space, practicality and higher driving position.
I looked at (new shape) Berlingo when we recently changed cars, really great cars, may have bought one but the 110 XTR model which we saw smelled like an ashtray, we came back looked at it again, it had sold in the interim at a big discount and now smelled as fresh as any nearly new car full of chemicals could.