I have a situation that is worse than the one posted by the OP (or at least i feel it is).
She says – I feel like i need to get out and or do something/go somewhere, basically she’s been stuck indoors for the past few days.
My reply is a standard “ok, what do you want to do/where do you want to go”? Given she’s the one who wants to do something i feel it should be down to her to suggest what to do. Surely she has something in mind?
No. Her reply to this is “I don’t know. What do you want to do” !!!!!!
WTF. It wasn’t my idea so why’s it down to me to come up with a suggestion?
I offer up a couple of suggestions which range from walking the dogs, popping in to town to shop/eat/drink etc. None of these are what she fancies doing. So i ask her “What do you fancy doing”? The reply is always the same. “Oh i don’t know. What do you want to do”?
And so it goes until one of us, usually me, points out that I’m fine with just relaxing & listening to music (we both have different tastes so this causes more problems) watch TV (see the problem with music), read a book etc etc.
Its a vicious circle :roll: