Ok I’ve just gone through this. I’m 45.
Met on POF after 1 or 2 dates with other people, previous relation ship was 19 years.
She is 44, 2 kids one 21 and one 3 and the last 2 months has been fooking brilliant, she is very chilled we love the same music, camping, outdoors stuff, I always wanted to be a dad now I’ve the cutest 3 year old to spoil rotten, get on well with the 21 year old also, although she has her own life bf etc.. not at home at weekends.
I swear I cannot remember the last time I was so happy.
And we just get on! we both put cards on the table from word go so we both knew what each other wanted and its working very well indeed!
I think at this age no one wants the bullshit so if you both honest and up front things go very well.