Thanks all for your replies, especially thanks to sparkyspice.
Where abouts are you based out of interest? Just thinking i could take her away for a few days and suprise her with a balloon ride.
Flights being cancelled is not a big problem as i am self employed, i don’t think the wife would like a 5:30 am start due getting up to the baby during the night.
Definitely a few things to think about, may ask her if she knows what’s involved next time she mentions it.