It’s been 3 &1/2 years since I got a job after being made redundant 9 months previous.
I got a duff job and hunted hard for what I really wanted. It took another 12 months
I literally get cold sweats thinking about it happening again, and every November I have to stop myself from freaking out.
But, there is hope. It’s not you! Never blame yourself.
Loyalty is for those that can afford it. My life lesson is ALWAYS look after your own needs, as that is what your employer is ALWAYS thinking.