Keep away from the “industry” at all costs!
Ours in 2014:
Bespoke custom made Cocktail dress for the bride, and matching waistcoat and hanky for me to go with existing suit. Even a bespoke dress was cheaper than an off the peg meringue. £1400
Hired pub from an acquaintance for civil ceremony and evening do £700
Ram raided local supermarkets for flowers £200 for a van full
No photographer, Couple of friends brought SLRs and as long as you get the family pics for the parents, no one else cares and you save a fortune.
Two Hundred meters of fairy lights to decorate venue £200
Big posh lunch for 40 at pub, and hog on a spit, plus salads and trimmings for 140 in the evening. – We like food, splashed out a bit here £2000
Invited guests to bring a cake or pud in Bake-off style, looked great and £free. Pub did ice cream/cream/custard
We spent most of the budget on food and drinks, total all in was £6k. And as you can see, we could have gone cheaper, but did treat ourselves to some niceties.