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Learn to be organised. The ability to get us all out of the house in a couple of minutes with everything we need is priceless. This also get easier the older they get. Don’t get too comfortable staying in as it appears easier. Get them outside loads either in the pram or some carrying instrument and let them look at stuff and get loads of fresh air.
Also buy the equivalent of a hack bike pram. We bought an old 3 wheel off road pram off eBay for £20 and it goes up rivington pike several times a week, gets slung in the back of cars, left in the garage caked in mud ect.
Buy a blender and learn to cook without salt and sugar and blend whatever your eating for the little one, get loads of veg into them and get them started in real food instead of jars for years.
Don’t get hung up on what you think you should be doing or when things don’t go to plan. Just enjoy it