Fantastic response there from north wind, funnily enough since I’ve been riding road it’s been the mountain bikers who have a problem saying hi or being pleasant generally. I admit roadies can be arseholes but that happens in all walks of life, don’t tar everyone with same brush!
Now to the topic in hand, have a look at specialized allez, bianchi nirone and giant defys. Try and avoid shimano 2300 groupset as it’s pressed out shite! You will become hooked if only by the speed and efficiency of it all!