I had a friend kill herself. Or so the papers said. I didnt find out till years after, but for some reason she was in the psychiatric hospital.No doubt someone had convinced her to go there for some ‘help’,and they doped her up to the eyeballs. I imagine that the drugs hurt her so much(literally), and she thought she’d never be released, so she threw herself under a train.
Either that or another of the inmates decided to do her in
Perhaps I can understand her pain, but that was real for her
What I’d say is that we have feelings, and if we dont ‘switch off’ they can get strong. If we do switch off, we become unfeeling, brutal, robots, but, if we can stay with our feelings,like a dream,they evolve, and so can change.
One cant nail them down, in a 2 dimensional format, like a painting, cos thats when they die.
So yes its ok to have feelings,but dont try to take any action, cos thats the end of the feeling, thats escaping from your feelings, so you will never know what feelings mean.Every time that feeling will come back, and you will have the same negative response
Hang on until the bubble bursts. Then you will see things differently