Not entirley on topic; but there is some relevance….
It was Nelson Mandela's 20th anniversarry of his release yesterday. When He was released people thought he would sponsor ANC action but instead he said that he wanted reconcilliation and forgiveness for those who had put him in prison, and for all of SA for that matter.
Family is family, it is better to swallow your pride and deal with it then never speak to people again. However nasty, horrible or annoying they are.
Don't bear grudges and remember that time heals all wounds. Cheesey I know but I think its true (to a certain extent).
You don;t have to stop seeing people, if they choose to stop seeing you then thats fine but don't ever shut the door.
As DJ Hype ones sampled… Peace Love and Unity :D