[Closed] Who's man enough to admit it? Viagra......

My missus used to work for Pfizer and sold Viagra so I tried it a few years ago. Can't say I noticed any difference, other than a slightly flushed face, but not even the might of a giant pharma company could breath new life into my baldy half incher

Fair play to you, and good luck.

Remember, this may take a while, so don't lose faith if it goes a bit wrong the first time.

no never needed it but I was surprisingly nervous first time after a 20 year faithful relationship as was she...worked out though and I hope it does for you both

By admitting it on an open forum you get my respect. Too many people clam up in difficult situations rather than face them and by honestly talking about it with your partner will surely help not hinder your problem. Fair play to you sir.

Oh, and enjoy your rumpy pumpy!! 😉

What side-effects are you worried about? Isn't it just blue vision for very few people? Or do you mean more psychological side-effects of having to take the pills?

Tbh viagra wouldn't be my first port of call (couple of pints would be, but I'm guessing you've tried that 🙂 ), or even second or third, but if it can sort things out it has to be worth a shot. As you say, it would be just to get you over the initial nervousness.

I would suggest that you invest in some trubulus terrestris

Used by the greeks and romans to boost the stamina of thier armed forces and as an aphrodisiac

http://www.livestrong.com/article/494835-tribulus-for-increasing-testosterone-levels/

stimulates the pituitary gland and increases testosterone production, like a very natural hign 😀

I need help 'the other way'. I still think like a spotty 15yr old FFS 😕

i will chip in for you to be spayed of you want Hora 😉

I am sure you have had all the suggestions already but focus on the game, not the goal.

And when you do hit the back of the net the game isn't over - you keep playing for 90 minute and into extra time.

Watch some pron beforehand as a warm up

1 serious bit of advice if you go for it (and I can't see why you shouldn't if it helps) DO NOT have much alcohol with it.

Passing out in sweaty pool of vomit will not help things!

and for the record no one is leagues above you 😉

Many years back in Lagana in Zante (classy I know) Viagra was being sold in all the bars, 'buy a shot get a Viagra' sort of thing, looking back it might well of been a refresher for all I knew, but at the time I must admit I did not notice a difference 😉

and for the record no one is leagues above you

i reckon i could do with some.
my diet of warfarin, digoxin and bisoprolol being a key factor.
beta blockers have a tendancy to kill the urge........... 😀

Well your bravery is totally admirable sir. I suspect there's a couple of mental issues for you both. Sounds like youre a little intimidated what with her being above your league (all in your head, of course). The little blue pill sounds like it might assist you initially and your doctor seems to have the right idea, help not a cure. Hopefully it will allow you to bolster your confidence and that might be all you need - cure yourself. If not a good sexual counsellor might be the long term answer.

Good luck with it.

Don't think about Ann Widdecombe.

[i]Don't think about Ann Widdecombe. [/i]

or do.

whatever floats your boat, really.

I use it.

I take one quarter of the smallest dose tablet. I don't get a full erection, but it sticks out far enough so I don't wee on my slippers.

ive taken this before
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for recreational reasons rather than medical (best not to go into details)

anyway im assuming its similar stuff to viagra and definately works

dont worry about it i take paracetamol when i have a headache, anti-histamines in hayfever season etc etc

btw we expect a post match analysis when you get back!!

I've used viagra recreationally, both official Pfizer product and a rip off product which was a much higher dose, and it certainly got things going. Re-load time was virtually eliminated as well.

Didn't really experience any side effects apart from the obvious. In your shoes, as it is being prescribed by a doctor, I'd give it a shot.

LOL @ crickey. 😀

i will chip in for you to be spayed of you want Hora

Its my mind. Its wired for filth.

Don't think about Ann Widdecombe.

Just concentrate on repeating "Anne Widdicome" under your breath, rather like some form of Kabbadi.

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Oh, and OP - I reckon your guts saying this on here means you're half way there. Just take what the doc offers as a bit of a starter for 10, and see how you and your new lady go from there.

And remember, it's all about fun..!

I find that if you mentally flick through your back catalogue of 'greatest hits' you can either get it up or end quicker.... depending on which you 'select' 8)

I can't use chat roulette without it

class 😆

Why don't you both just go out and have a few drinks and have a good night out, should help you both relax

I was offered some by a dodgy mate and gave it a go, no side effects to worry about, just an occasional light headedness, and fuzzy warm flushes to your face - occasional 'warm' eyesight too, actually fairly pleasant.

20 mins in, think a sexy thought and you'll be ready to go. Great fun. the best bit as mentioned earlier, is reload time. You can get down to it again 5 mins after the first session.

Bingo Bango! Enjoy!

She doesn't think she is way better than you or she wouldn't be with you. (Bit of a problem for me with Mrs B really, but its lasted 18 years so far and it took me about 12 years to be comfortable) So have some confidence in your situation.

You could try 'Horny Goat Weed' which is a more natural product rather than a drug first. H&B and Zipvit stock it.

[url] http://www.zipvit.co.uk/cgi-bin/popupprod3a1.pl?prodcode=A32&cartnumber=20628z&currency= [/url]

I used it a bit the other year when I was perhaps a bit stressed (work) but also over 50 which can't be helping. Made a small difference I have to say but not used the big V. Maybe a bit of a placebo as well.

You probably have to just relax, good luck hope it works out for you.

Ewe, chemical enhancements.. no thanks.

Do you fancy her?
Does she fancy you?

Great, then relax, take your time it's not a race afterall, enjoy other pleasures and fall in love again.

T'is all.

I tried some Viagra eye drops, just made me look 'hard'.

Don't expect to have 'all guns blazing' from the start. Go in there intent on giving [i]her[/i] a good time any way you can and I don't see why it shouldn't happen for you.
Nicest thing wifey ever said to me was that she likes to feel it growing in her hands, that totally put me at ease.

Alternatives are available on prescription if Viagra doesn't suit you with its side effects - i.e. Levitra - though of course they will have their own effects. Just worth bearing in mind there are a few options out there.

I should declare a financial interest at this point. In the drug I mean. I'm not betting on you or owt 🙂

Swallow it fast or you'll get a stiff neck.

IGMC.....

A couple of my mates used to spend every Friday evening having their 'Sexstacy' evenings.

They'd do a Viagra each and some E's or MDMA. Apparently its a very fine way to spend the night. Just a thought. Though eventually you're back'll go

Mostly Balanced, Too much information. 😯

I'd love to try Viagra. I'd probably expire after 6hours at it. Either that or a new pelvis would be required for the lucky lady..

😉

sex + pills = 'interesting' experience...

Nicest thing wifey ever said to me was that she likes to feel it growing in her hands, that totally put me at ease.

😆

Have a 'dirty' evening where you both agree beforehand that you will [i]not [/i]have sex. That should eliminate performance anxiety as you don't have to perform, just enjoy it.

You can also get sprays from many sex shops, or via the internet, and they do work!!!!!

Mick youre a very brave man for airing your feelings, and best of luck to you both

Have a 'dirty' evening where you both agree beforehand that you will not have sex. That should eliminate performance anxiety as you don't have to perform, just enjoy it.

[s]You could also enjoy a bottle of champagne then use the bottle on yourself whilst your missus watches [/s] whistles

I like the name of that "Menhancer" stuff you see in the motorway service station vending machines.

Can't vouch for whether it works though.

someone at work was recommending "horny goat weed"...

just drink alcohol...

Welcome to Hora's World. Fasten your seatbelts please 😯