regularly use a loud stern voice to try to control and keep in check our 1 and 3 year old. Â Mostly they are good kids, much better behaved than many we see but it's early days. Â We have good friends whose boys are feral, I mean really bad, drawing on tellies, lying down in muddy puddles, throwing stones at window, pulling blinds off etc...they do the quiet approach with the naughty step and then cuddles. Â Will be interesting to see if they get better or worse. Â they were so bad we don't really want then round the house in case they trash it any more
only lost it with proper shouting twice I think. Â When trying to drive and boy#1 having a full melt down screaming for 20mins or so. Â Now if he starts the cat radio goes on full blast till he stops...
great replies above, thank you again.
