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G, I think TBH chap, I'm considerable more chilled that you. ๐
[i]My Grrrrrrr response is legend actually[/i]
Case in point? I don't have a "Grrrrr response"
I agree to the point that men look at women and that women look at men, but as for the notion that blokes [i]only[/i] look at women in terms of sex? Nah, sorry don't go for it...
Is that a fact?
Yes, my mates down the pub all agree with me. ๐
Chastened ๐ฏ Fair enough then.
nickc: Do you have a daughter? I reckon Grrrr is very relaxed and chilled in the circumstances.
Yep I do.
She's 8, maybe as she gets older my views will change, who knows?
Mine did, and I have had this conversation openly with my daughter. She wouldn't have any of it, then discussed it with boyfriend who rather red faced agreed with me.
[i]I agree to the point that men look at women and that women look at men, but as for the notion that blokes only look at women in terms of sex? Nah, sorry don't go for it...[/i]
Out of interest, what are the reasons that you think men do look at women?
I'll glance a look at a nice pair if they're "in my face" like the next man, but my first, second or third thought is not "I want to F&*k that girl..."
Like I said really, deep down he's agreeing with me, but hes struggling with his G-Spot at the moment so don't hastle him.
Incidentally, nick I never said it was conscious or overt, I am however suggesting that it is pretty much an automatic and instinctive thing.
If you're making out that the urge to reproduce is "automatic" and "instinctive", how do you explain people who never have a relationship or get married? Or gay people? Do they go through their days in a twisted hell of self-denial, or do they just get on with their lives? ๐
All weirdos.... ๐
I'm happily not married to the mother of my children. We've been together for more than 20 years, we spend most days together, as we work together. In all of those years I've never once been even tempted to "be" with another woman. My assertion that men look at women still holds, I can admire a good looking woman in the same way I can admire art or a beautiful landscape, but sex? Nope, not interested. It's nice, I've got no pressure, I'm not trying to impress any-one, I've not got an agenda, hidden or otherwise.
It's not instinctive, it's learned.
In denial .....
A quote from RoadBikeReview;
"Women have the uncanny ability to appreciate beauty without needing to **** it."
A quote from Hormones and Behaviour Journal;
"Men spent more time, and had a higher probability of, looking at female faces. NC Women had more first looks towards, spent more time, and had a higher probability of, looking at genitals."
Stop it... ๐
IanMunro -
The study may 'say' genitals but what they were looking at could perhaps be labelled a 'complete d!ck' ๐
Muffintops?
I have also heard this called a gunt, a gut that runs down to a c.... you get my drift...........