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So still seeing the Ex as friends but there is obviously a bit of fruity tension building. I'm certain if I suggested getting back together there wouldn't even be a drop of the hat involved. The time were together is soo good and we really seem to fit hand in glove. What to do ??.
Need help!!!
See how keen she is. One up the bonus tunnel? Bring a friend?
Good ones that aren't in need of psychotherapy are hard to find.
She sounds like a good one.
Decide or shell meet someone else and she'll be gone forever..
Split with mine for a while and now back together.
Going to give her a ring soon.
Get back together then, see if I care...
Split with mine for a while and now back together.
Going to give her a ring soon.
I usually just text.
Can't do that with hands free kit..
What to do?
Set her up with someone nice to replace you in her affections.
At least that way you get to help choose who spends the rest of his life with her. Perhaps you'll get an invite to the wedding.
Meh. Give it a go. What's the worst that can happen? 😀
1. how old are you both, roughly?
2. have you moved on from the issues that caused you to break up?
3. If you're not sure don't go back, messing with her feelings again would be particularly cruel.
This thread is useless without pictures.
She must have the patience of a frickin saint. That or you're both 14.
Just get on and ask. What's the worse that can happen?
Life is for living, not procrastinating.
I'm going to say if you feel like that you need to tell her.
If you don't actually know what she thinks you're just doing alot of whataboutery.
Just tell her how you feel. The worst that can happen is that she laughs in your face and commands you never to contact her again.
Yes it can work. Me and Mrs TJ split up for two years 25 years ago
You need to get back together or cool it off all together for a while. If you don't you will prevent each other moving on.
I speak from experience having stayed friends with an ex I still cared deeply for but didn't necessarily want to get back together with. In the end she did meet someone else (Not before 'borrowing' 10k from me that I will never see again) and that hurt as much as splitting up in the first place.
Not long after I met my now wife though so every cloud and all that. 😀
as Robert De Niro said in the role of Max Cady in Cape Fear,...ask her... "are you offering me something hot?"
Need pic's to accurately judge.
Me and Mrs TJ split up for two years
It took her two years to accept she was wrong about helmets? 🙂
I was with my Ex for 9 years. We had one separation. I was at my friends house and he asked if we were going to get back together. I said "yeah, I guess so". It seemed inevitable- we were engaged and due to get married the following summer.
He looked me square in the eye and said "you do know you don't have to?" and it was like one of those breakthrough therapy moments in a film.
I suddenly realised I definitely didn't want to!
It feels like my life has only just started since then.
So, by all means instigate something if you want to but please remember "you don't have to!"
1. how old are you both, roughly? [b]41 and nearly 40[/b]
2. have you moved on from the issues that caused you to break up? [b]This needs a good chat through as its the whole Kids issue - I have two teenagers she has none but wants some.[/b]
3. If you're not sure don't go back, messing with her feelings again would be particularly cruel.[b] This is very true. I'm maybe pushing the friends boundaries too far and wanting more that she may. [/b]
Op and his on/off ex earlier today;-)
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I recall somebody split up from the forum for two years a while back.
Not amazingly stunning
I don't think you should get back together.
You like her she likes you, you`re both in you 40s the clocks ticking, she was more than happy with you with a crappish job as you say and your baggage from a previous, she is quite fit(not amazingly stunning) you obviously get on together, as long as you want more bread snappers go for it, there are a lot of people out there that would not look past the crappish job or the baggage from a previous, what is the worst that can happen!!
You have teenage kids, she want her own. Yeah, that's going to work well.
You do realise about half the worlds population is the opposite sex.